The stress has begun!

I’m so stress out recently with this 2 things! My studies and the events!!

I’m currently a committee for two event. The secretary for Valentines Dedication Set and Hall Master for Glee Music Festival and I need to cope with my studies at the same time. This is very stressful especially when final exam is 3 weeks away and having 3 presentations, 1 test and 1 assignment on your hand and all this need to be done in a week.


Plus when you have an OC which is so demanding for the event. What he want from us is a perfect and flawless event with low budget. I know everyone want things to be perfect but how on earth we can do it with low budget! He asked us to carry out our task and gave us instruction to do for the task, so we followed. But after executing the task, he rebutted and rejected what we have done. He wants everything to be done with only his idea. How can an event be successful without wanting to hear the opinion of his committees?

18 November 2014, that night our hall master department was scolded by him for not having progression in our task and procrastinating. We have hard feeling that night after all that he said but we never complain. This is what life going to be in our working days next time and this is only just an experience for us to face bigger problem and more obstacles in future.


What I have learn from my previous assignment that I have done is that a good leader will listen, and when a leader listen, it motivates their committee to do well.  What I know now is that if I’m a leader next time, I will listen to all my team’s opinion and insight.

Event, Assignment, Test, Presentations and final exam! You are making me stress but I know all this will build a stronger me to face larger obstacles in the future.

Therefore, I would like to say as a student is that we should manage our time well in order to cope with our studies and also involve in event.


Peace No War and Gambateh Brenda! You can do it!

Judge Me?? Wait a second...Look into the mirror first..

People just don’t look into the mirror before judging others. They tend to give comments about other people but they themselves are not perfect. No one in this world is perfect. Even you and I have our own weaknesses. I admit that I do have the bad side of me but I never stop changing myself into a better me.

 We should never stop trying to change ourselves into a better us before you try to change others.

People say even though how hard we try to change, changes are hard to be made because we are born this way.

I disagree with that because when there is a will, there is a way. Everything is possible if you believe that you can change!!

Aren't friends are the ones who accept us the way we are??

There are some friend who never stop making a remark on you even the closest friends around you. I've discover even though how good we are, human never stop judging. It’s human nature to judge. They just take our goodness for granted by taking advantage and judge us by our personality and appearance.

Sometimes we are weak and scare to approach them for their judgement. So we just let people get the best of us, destroy us, and change our opinions on what we believe is true. Only you know what is right for yourself. You have the power, you make the choices and you learn. Each experince we go through in life is a lesson to be learned. We all make mistakes. Why is that so hard for some to understand? No one should be judge by the mistake they have made.

Stopped making negative judgemental about the people you encounter.You never know their true journey of their life. 

Nowadays, it’s hard to find a true friend who does not judge the dark side of you. True friend are like gold and they are hard to find. We should be very glad and appreciate them if we do have one especially those who love us and accept us the way we are.

So change ourselves and stop judging to make the world a better place to stay...When there's no hatred, the world will be peaceful...

Have an awesome Friday Bloggers and yeeehhaaaa tomorrow is a weekend!

Bad sleeping Habits..

Do you know that feeling when you get into bed, fall right to sleep, stay asleep all night and wake up feeling refresh? I have never felt that for years already.

I love to sleep but I never sleep early.
I'm too tired but I just can't sleep.
Enough of sleep is important but I never get enough of sleep.

And the worst thing ever is you make a decision to sleep late at night and wake up in the morning with regret of not sleeping early at night. But still, you do the same thing every night.

I do know that young people nowadays like to have night life. Yes we can have, but not always!!

I'm having this problem of not sleeping early at night since I was in Matriculation College and I think most of the students and teenagers nowadays are facing the same problem as me.

Guess what?
I think we should change this habit to live a better and healthy life.

I started to have this problem since I was in Matric because I think I was stress with my studies because the lecturers there are strict and have high expectation on their student. As time goes by, I'm so used to sleep late at night or even have only an hour of sleep before going to class. I know this is bad for me because this will affect my health and studies. I have tried a few times to change my sleeping cycle but it just doesn't work. 

Therefore, I have came with my 5 sleeping rules and hope this will help.

My 5 rules for me to change my bad habit:

•  Do not take a nap in the evening, unless you are really tired.

•  Put aside your mobile phone at night to prevent you from checking out your phone.

•  Do not drink coffee or tea because it just make your brain feel energetic.

•  Try to empty your brain and not thinking of anything that make you stress while you  are on your bed.

•  Someone told me that drink a cup of hot chocolate might help to sleep better. So do  try this!

So guys and girls, 

Lets change our bad habit together to live a better life!!