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Thursday, 24 April 2014

Do I believe in long term and long distance relationship?




Someone asked me this question “Do I believe in long distance and long term relationship?”

       I just barely gave him a short answer. But here’s what I truly and honestly think about long term and long distance relationship.

        It’s rather difficult for most people for this kind of relationship and I think long distance love without having seen the person at least once per week is risky but Yes I do believe in long term relationship. If there’s trust, honesty and patience between both of the couple there will be no problem with that if both put their whole hearts into it and are willing to be patient until the day they can be together.



          I believe the key to a successful long distance relationship is communication. I'll try to communicate more than once per day if we are separated by distance. I will give him a call or text him everyday. Or maybe Skype him if I really miss him. I'll try to do anything to make this relationship works. Even if we are busy, I'll try to find time for a quick video chat each day. I will be glad enough if I'm being able to see his face and know his condition by video chat him. Sometimes it's also good to concern about the one we love by asking what am I doing. At least I knows that I'm on his mind every single time. A relationship cannot thrive if the only we have is phone calls. Sometimes, we need to see each other in person at every opportunity and try to visit on regular schedule if possible.






         I think that long distance relationship will work if we have a personal object of the person we love. We will able to hold on to something that once belong to the person we love. This will provide comfort, happiness and the thought of being with the person.
I feel that if we truly love that person, we willing to wait for that person even if we are far apart. You just willing to sacrifice ourself by waiting.
As long as both people are willing to make the relationship work and be faithful, true love will survive and anything is possible.



"Distance is not for the fearful, it is for the bold. It's for those who are willing to spend a lot of time alone in exchange for a little time with the one they love. It's for those knowing a good thing when they see it, even if they don't see it nearly enough."





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